Every sexual experience is unique and complex. People often bring baggage to the table which negates the openness of sex. For example, people feel pressure to orgasm at the same time and resort to faking an orgasm to appear that way.
I find it’s the same with phone sex.The best phone sex is a conversation that is purely honest.
I had a rather passionate encounter with someone the other day that I want to share to illustrate my point. This man had a desire to be submissive to me in a variety of ways. He wanted me to explore the idea of cock control with him as well as submissive body worship. We started to talk and yet it felt stilted and almost acted out instead of real.
I gently stopped our conversation and guided him into a discussion about what he “really wanted”. Once he explained to me that he thought his responses should be a certain way in order to live out the fantasy it became so clear what my next move was. We tried again and this time when I asked him a question or inquired as to a feeling he was completely honest in all of his responses. What resulted was a very sexual, erotic conversation for both of us.
He had a desire to be controlled, to have someone else take over his cock and yet he wasn’t excited at all by the idea of male chastity. Instead, he just wanted his impulses to be curbed through tease and denial. And he still wanted to orgasm…..a lot! He just wanted to do it with me.
I made him strip and start stroking his cock. He closed his eyes and I asked him to tell me in vivid detail his hottest fantasy. This time there was no hesitation or false starts. His tale of seductive body worship culminating into his fevered thrusting into a woman while worshiping her breasts and promising to be her slave was as erotic and vivid a story as I’ve ever heard. As he described each intense moment, his breath quickened and a moan escaped his lips.
I loved listening to his every word…..and then I made him stop.
All things being fair, it was my turn. As you know, I love sharing stories and fantasies with you. My good obedient boy sat there, listening intently, as he was forced to keep his hands off his cock. I told him all about me. How I liked my body to be worshiped, my breasts to be squeezed, my legs stroked and my feet adored. How my hand would slip down to my pussy and I would pleasure myself for hours.
Every naughty detail was revealed and my own breath became labored. He blurted out his desire to worship my body, to start at my feet and pleasure my body until I was 100% satiated. I decided that he would have his chance. Letting him stroke his cock once more we shared a vivid and erotic fantasy of mutual pleasure. Listening to his breath he didn’t need to tell me that he couldn’t stop! Such devotion and pleasures deserves a reward, I allowed him release and his orgasm was a burst of pure pleasure and desire.
And although he came, (which one might think might negative the idea of cock control phone sex) his mind was filled with thoughts of me.
There is after all more than one way to control a cock.
The moral of this story is this: sexual experiences should be rooted in honesty, not in what you think the other person wants to hear. Whatever your fantasy or desire, I am here for you.
Thanks for a thoughtful and instructive post. I agree that being candid and honest about one’s desires and wants makes for the most erotic and meaningful calls. I also admire that “you” care enough about us to want to have that type of call with us as well!
Oh, BTW…………Beautiful smile in the pic today!! Just being truthful
Dear Mike as the inspiration for this post I thank you! The quality, depth, connection and enjoyment of all parties is always my first goal! As with life, calls will be different…some funny, some intense, some earth shattering…but each and every one deserves my best! And by the way, you have a killer smile to dear….
This is an amazing post. When great jazz or blues musicians perform they’re not really “thinking” about the notes, their technique or even what the audience thinks. The music just flows from their soul. No filters to their creativity. Just total freedom to honestly express whatever their inner self envisions.
The results are truly inspiring.
How cool that you were able to achieve that on a phone call.
Actually the coolest part of the post was that you cared enough to stop the call and help him get to a place that sounds pretty mind blowing. In the past I’ve experienced other companies where since “the meter’s running” they would just let you flounder a bit.
Thank you Hank! You have inspired a future post about the way a beautiful piece of music flows so should a great phone sex call! Your phrase “filters to their creativity” was beautiful and an excellent way to experience life to the fullest. If we all were truer to our “inner visions” I think there would be a lot less frustration! I absolutely love the type of music you write about, not studio produced or “re-mastered” but pure live talent flowing over you. The Grateful Dead, Phish come to mind as well as many many unsung local artists.
I will always attempt to re-direct a call or caller when it seems they are a bit lost. Sometimes that’s not possible and that’s OK too. Each and every time we speak its an opportunity for us to learn about each other and ourselves, why ignore the opportunity! Please keep your comments coming, I love the way their insight adds depth and flavor.
And you are very good at discovering what I truly want and giving it to me, no matter how much I may beg for mercy
Cole I have the special ability to hear the unspoken truth in your words.