You go to your Mistress for a Guided Masturbation phone sex session. This is something you’ve done many times over the years and you really enjoy the rapport you have with her. You love that she knows just how to guide you and what to say. She knows when to make you stop and just how far to go to give you the most intense orgasm. And the fact that she finds watching you exciting is an added bonus. The webcam is on, as it usually is and she is gazing at you as you happily stroke your cock.
The Waiting Is The Hardest Part
So here you are in the middle of your session when she suddenly stops and says it’s time for you to go home. You’re done for the day. At first you think she’s joking; that she’s just stopping for a while to distract you. But then you see the resolve in her face. She means what she is saying! What the fuck?! Keeping your eyes down and being very respectful, you ask why she stopped. She tells you that denial is good for the soul and the cock and that you are not to touch it again until you are given permission. You can’t argue with your Mistress without repercussions, so you have no other choice but to go home and wait. And wait.
Everyday you wake up hopeful that this is the day your Mistress will call and tell you that you can touch your cock. The idea that you can’t is making you a little crazy. You never realized how much you needed to masturbate until you couldn’t. You thought about your hard cock a lot before this and now you’re obsessed with stroking. You can’t concentrate on anything anymore except your throbbing cock.
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Then She is There and You Are Ready
Finally she calls. The sound of her voice gives you a full boner in 10 seconds flat. She tells you that she has an assignment for you and when you are finished you are to come see her for another stroking session. She says that you are to stoke your cock in front of a mirror five times. Each time you are to stop before you cum and go and do something else for a few minutes. You are not to have an orgasm until you go to see her. She says that she wants to watch you cum and that she will know if you cheat. There is a very stern warning from her if you cheat. There will be severe punishment if you cum before you’re allowed to do so.
You assure your Mistress that you won’t do anything without her permission and that you haven’t masturbated since the last time you saw her. You say your respectful goodbyes and hang up. Then you worry. How am I going to do this? But you desperately want to please your Mistress, so you have to try. And you can’t fail because her punishments are legendary. You don’t dare push her to that.
Oh such sweet torture, the not being allowed is torture most when you have no say
Cole you’ve just again started your chastity and I know how hard the first few days are. You are right, the experience is much richer and more intense when you have no say in the matter. That’s why you’ve given me the control….you know that I know what’s best for you. We’ll get you where you want to be, together.
i love this blog. it reminds me of the situation i am in now. i haven’t cum since the nov 5th. i am dying to have a release but i want it to be special and not just another typical masturbation session.
fscguy I admire that you’ve been in chastity for the last 10 days, especially knowing your love of cum! I think your first release should be special not to mention the awesome video I know you’ll make when you do! I’m curious, how did you handle the feeling of being deprived?
the first 6 or so days weren’t that bad. when day 7 came about however, it started to get tough to handle the denial.
You are right fscguy, that’s when it really becomes a mental challenge. I have said many times to many men in chastity as they were convinced they could not go on and were begging for release…..the satisfaction you will feel for a few minutes is nothing compared to how disappointed you’ll be when the “glow” has faded. There’s a lot of personal pride to be had in setting a goal and sticking to it no matter what. Not to mention all that lovely built up anticipation for when you finally do have your release.
Guided masturbation is something I’m just learning. I’ve always been one of those guys who grabs, jerks and cums. Learning to slow down, try different grips, strokes, and rhythms has been a huge learning experience for me. I can’t wait until next week when we add a bit of tease and denial into the mix. Ms. Layla has been teaching me and believe me I’m a willing student!
Ah Fran you are more than a willing student, you are eager and excited! You’ve come so far from our first conversations where you barely lasted 5 minutes. I think our last guided masturbation call was 30 minutes! When you e-mail me with a new stroke or a thought you’ve had on a variation I love it! We each learn from the other don’t you agree? We’ve had our tease and denial call and I could tell it really added a lot for you. I could hear in your voice your building excitement as I brought you up and down the pleasure scale, denying you right until the very end! You know I’ll get you on cam sooner rather than later!
Ms. Layla there’s nothing I dread more or crave more than those words “Ok dear, you can stop now. Put your toys away no more playtime for you.” Even though I know that every stroke brings me closer to this moment I savor each one as you instruct me. I love how you control my movements, my desires and the ultimate outcome. You know me so well!
Awwww BellFleur our tease and denial phone sex calls have gotten better and better as we’ve gotten to know each other better. You’ve been so open and generous with yourself we’ve just started exploring your fantasies, boundaries and pleasures.
Ohhh teasing….that’s the best way to get yourself all hot and bothered!
Isn’t it Jennis? A long and sensuous teasing call gets this Mistress all hot and bothered too!
Tease and denial wow, what can I say. I’ve been a fan of teasing for years, the longer it goes on, the more intense it gets the better my orgasm. Its a mental/physical thing for me. The teasing stimulates my imagination and my need to delay my gratification. The longer I hold off and the better my Mistress is at teasing me the more intense pleasure I know I’ll have later. This can either go on for a session or for longer period of time. I’ve enjoyed long and short term, it just depends on my mood.
Sugar you are so right about that, the more you can delay your release and the more intense you can make the journey the better it will be! I love that you said it stimulates your imagination. That is so true, the deeper you get into the feelings, the more you free yourself to deeply experience the moment the more your imagination will be free to roam. When you can clear the clutter both emotional and physical and sink into wave after wave or erotic energy your Mistress can take you places you’ve never been before. Whatever your mood, long or short, each experience can be more intense, richer and deeper if you’ve got an open mind and heart.
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